Thursday, August 04, 2011

Forget about moodiness...


This morning, when I finally managed to get up, I was very grumpy and dreaded the day. I hadn't had my medicines yet and was in dire need of some cups of coffee. However, being so grumpy, I didn't realize that until I had taken my medicines and had the coffee. After that, I was doing so much better that it was a difference between night and day and I thought I had been in the depths of a depression. 

It goes to show you that you shouldn't draw your conclusions about your mood prematurely. That everything is very quickly changeable, as changeable as the Dutch weather and that you can go from one mood to another in the shortest amount of time. Nothing is permanent, especially not the mood you wake up with. It's just a temporary chemical imbalance that needs to be set straight.

This does bother me and I wish it wasn't so and that I was more predictable. I don't like waking up in a bad mood because it fools me every time. I never think it will get better. I think I'm doomed and will stay that way for the rest of the day and maybe permanently so. I try to imagine another kind of scenario but find it very difficult to. 

Anyway, now I feel better and I'm capable of thinking more positive thoughts, though I'm not quite ready to tackle the dishes yet. They do need to get done, I can't get out from underneath them. There really aren't that many, it's just the idea of them that I have a problem with. 

But I think I'm still seeing the shadow of 'the black dog.' He isn't quite gone from my life yet. He's walking around in the undergrowth and causing me some problems still and, although my medication has been increased, I think maybe it's not been enough yet. I'm going to have to discuss this with my psychiatrist when I see him next. I'm living on the margins of maybe being okay sometimes and that's not close enough. 

Leave it to me to make this more serious than I had intended. I wanted to write something more lighthearted than this, but sometimes you have to put your thoughts down to get things clear for yourself in the process. Sometimes these blog posts are purely therapeutic in value. Very selfishly so. 

It's 80F outside and the sun is shining in an almost bright blue sky. We've finally got a summer's day. There's no breeze to speak of and the leaves on the trees are barely moving. It was very pleasant when I took the dog out for a walk. Tomorrow is going to be cooler and we may have some spotty showers. I won't hold my breath for them. 

Tonight the last episode of 'Pride and Prejudice' is going to be on. Mr Darcy is going to pop the question. Everybody will presumably live happily ever after, but we will never know. I sure hope so for their sake. I want to believe in romance to some extend. I do make the occasional exception with my cynical heart.


Have a great day.

Ciao,
Nora



5 comments:

Twain12 said...

glad your mood improved a little..thank goodness my black dog is living and breathing and a big sweetheart LOL. Enjoy the last part of Pride and Prejudice. I do enjoy Jane Austen myself. Hope you have a good night.

Twain12 said...

on second thought i hope you know i wasn't being dismissive about the black dog thing, because i know what you mean ♥

Grit said...

sometimes it's the little things that help get me through the day ... light showers, blue sky, expectation of a good half hour on the iplayer...

Maggie May said...

Is it possible to live happily ever after? I doubt it!
Hope the black dog gets off your back. He has been following you around too long lately!

Have a good night and hope tomorrow is a great day.
Maggie X

Nuts in May

Exmoorjane said...

Love the way you write, Nora... And yes, this is one of the joys of blogging for me, that you are never quite sure what will come out, what will emerge...but usually it is what needs to come.
I totally relate to this post...do hope the dog stays obediently at heel (or, better still, in the kennel). xxxx